September 01, 2013

Bonding Through Story

When we try to create intimacy or closeness through sharing our stories and wounds we create relationships that bind us to our past. Yes, at some point the stories will be told but when they become the glue that binds us in closeness, we are creating a relationship that is aligned with our past and wounded self. These kinds of relationships can keep us from moving forward; to change our story often threatens them.

Try creating intimacy by sharing your dreams, by sharing the love and joy or even the sadness in your heart... Share the feelings of this moment. Share the stillness, find a way to play... Clear the decks to be completely present with someone in whatever form it takes. Presence is what creates true intimacy, complete presence with all our rumbling emotions and vulnerabilities, with our infinite capacity for love and compassion.